Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Can't Stop Won't Stop...

Time has been flying by here. I can’t believe we’re already into November! This time last year I was filling out paper work, making doctors appointments, researching storage units, putting in notice at my job, and preparing to move my life to Honduras. To think that that was an entire year ago already is incredible. A favorite expression frequently heard around the volunteer house is "can't stop, won't stop." For example: "I am going to eat this entire bag of chips by myself...I can't stop! Can't stop, won't stop!" Or: "I'm so tired, I should go to sleep but I can't stop marathon watching How To Get Away With Murder...can't stop, won't stop!" This expression, although used as a semi-literal joke, also is a fact of life around here. Things never seem to stop moving, it's always full speed ahead. Can't stop, won't stop...or you might get run over.

These last two months since my last post have been jam packed with fun events and activities. We celebrated 15 de Septiembre (Honduras Independence), had the long awaited Olimpiadas, my parents came to the Ranch for a visit, family vacation to Costa Rica and another volunteer retreat.

15 de Septiembre was a really fun day. The entire Ranch went to the nearby town of Talanga to march in the parade. A lot of my girls were either in the band, pom pom dancers, or baton twirlers. One of my girls had the honor of carrying the Honduran flag in the color guard! It was a very long day but so fun and exciting to see all of the kids promoting and supporting NPH and their school as well as showing their patriotism.

The first week of October was the long awaited and delayed Olimpiadas or Olympics. Olimpiadas is normally held in August but were pushed back this year because of some difficult losses. Every year a committee comes up with a theme. This year the theme was wild animals. The entire Ranch is then split into teams and given a wild animal, a value, and this year (a new twist) we were given an artist. It takes weeks of preparations to put everything together for the big weekend. The weekend of Olimpiadas consists of two parts: Friday night is the team presentations and Saturday is the games. On Friday every team has to do a skit and a dance. The presentation has to incorporate the team’s assigned value and we could only use music from our assigned artist. My team were the Honest Bison and our assigned artist was John Travolta. I was super lucky and had another volunteer on my team with me, Jess, who had participated in Olimpiadas last year, so she had some experience. We tried to point out that John Travolta wasn’t really an artist but an actor who happened to sing in some of his movies, but that didn’t seem to matter. Jess and I were put in charge of the remix and the dance portion of the presentation. We made an AWESOME Grease remix and had a lot of fun doing it. Every team also has to make a flag, a mural, design matching shirts, and come up with a slogan. It’s intense. The night of the presentations was so impressive. All the teams did an amazing job. The next day we did relay races, played tug of war in mud pits, volleyball, did an amazing obstacle course and many, many other games.

The following weekend my parents arrived! It was so great having them here and to get to show them the ranch, my girls and what my life is like here. On Saturday they experienced a VERY rainy mass at the church. We all had to shuffle and huddle together in the middle of the amphitheater to keep from getting wet from the rain blowing in from the sides. Sunday we walked to the represa and then that evening they got to experience a Cena Amistosa (friendship dinner) with all of the volunteers. Cena Amistosa is something that the volunteers do every month but this one was extra fun because we celebrated Canadian Thanksgiving. We have one Canadian volunteer, Marija, and she did a great job making a delicious meal with lots of wonderful food. On Monday my parents (both nurses) got to go with me to the External Clinic and see what a normal day was like, although, it wasn’t a very normal day because we started out with 2 emergency patients. On Tuesday they got to help me with patients because Steffi wasn’t there. We took vital signs, my dad helped me with a tough IV start, and they helped the doctor and I with a 3 year old who needed stitches in her forehead. Pretty eventful two days in the clinic. Monday was also very special because we did a Proyecto Familiar with a girl from my hogar and her brother. My parents got to learn how to make baleadas and spend some time with just two kids, definitely a little less overwhelming. On Tuesday we had a big party in hogar with cake and jello. My mom had made all of my girls gift bags and they were super excited to spend some time with my parents and, of course, get presents!

On Wednesday we left for Costa Rica. It was such a nice, relaxing, laid back vacation. We spent time driving along the coast, went to la Isla Tortuga, walked through the canopies of the rainforest in Monteverde, and survived 40km driving on dirt roads. One day towards the end of the vacation we were all tired and suffering from colds and we did literally nothing all day. It was amazing. We left our air-conditioned room exactly three times that day: breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and we spent the rest of the day napping and watching TV. Now, I’m not normally one for wasting vacation days in a hotel room but it was nice to be feeling under the weather in air-conditioning and with TV, something we definitely don’t get spoiled with on the ranch.

This last weekend was my second volunteer retreat. I cannot believe I’ve been here long enough to be on my second retreat already! And I can’t believe that the group that arrived in June has been here long enough to go on their first retreat! We went to Valle de Angeles, a really cute tourist town about an hour outside of Tegucigalpa and about 2 hours from the Ranch.

The next few weeks (and months) are going to be full speed ahead. Coming up in the next few weeks: Home Stay, Quinceañera, American Thanksgiving, and I’m going to El Salvador with the NPH soccer teams for a week!


Enjoy the photos…


Loving proyecto time with family.

Christina and I make a great proyecto team!

Loving on the littles...

My little love.

She is such a sweetheart.

This little mister gets cuter every day.

After a long morning of working it's time to trek back up to hogar.

Action shot! This is Maggie, a volunteer, playing on the NPH Honduras girls soccer team.

The whole team together.

In September we welcomed a 2 month old baby to our family! She is the sweetest, cutest little thing. And I got to be a baby nurse for awhile.

Night of Olimpiadas!

Los Bisontes de la Honestidad. Us bison...we're just so darn honest!

My parents are here!!!!!!!!!

Are these not the cutest little bolsitas?

Canadian Thanksgiving Cena Amistosa

Group picture of our Proyecto Familiar
Me and the birthday girl.

Getting full on those baleadas.

My mom had to snap this picture because she couldn't believe I could cook.

Time in hogar.

My parents getting a taste of a night in hogar with these crazy girls.

Thank you!!

Selfie time!

Costa Rica is gorgeous.

Driving down the coast.

Costa Rica

On our way to Isla Tortuga. Don't we look snazzy?

The picture says it all.

A grumpy evening in the clinic. Just look at that face!

Heading back to the Ranch after the volunteer retreat. Bye for now Tegus!

This guy just got his new glasses! Lookin' good!

Monday, September 7, 2015

Difficulties and destinations...

How has another two months gone by?! I know, I know, I start every blog this way. It’s really astounding how fast time flies here. I’ve taken to saying “the days are long but the weeks are short” and how true it is. Some days are loooooong. There is always so much to get done. But then, before you know it, the week is gone and it’s another weekend. And the fact that only every other weekend is a weekend off makes the time go even faster somehow I think.

I’m going to take the time in this blog post to talk about some tougher subjects (don’t worry, I’ll make up for it with tales of my trip to El Salvador and some amazing pictures). As wonderful and amazing and rewarding as it is to work and serve here in this country and in NPH it is also, at times, incredibly difficult. The month of August was a very difficult one for our family here at NPH Honduras. Early in the month one of our teenaged boys passed away unexpectedly. It was sad, shocking, and simply unimaginable. The effect and impact that this death had on our family was palpable. Though I did not know this boy very well I remember crying through the Rosary service we had for him because I simply couldn’t imagine anything happening to any one of my girls from my hogar. I love them all so much and have such a special and unique relationship with each and every one of them. I remember my girls asking me why I was crying and if I knew the boy well. I told them that no, I didn’t know him very well but that they are my world and I don’t know what I would do if anything happened to any one of them. One of my girls just smiled, put her hand on my shoulder and said, “Oh, Megan, you haven’t been here very long…” That was another eye opener. My girls, while sad at what had happened, were not as upset as I expected them to be. Most of them were not close to the boy who passed away and, for many of them, death, even one so sudden and difficult as this one, is a fact of life that one must simply accept and move on. Sometimes I allow myself to forget about where these kids come from. To carry that weight around all the time is simply too much and if you are constantly thinking about their backgrounds you stop seeing them as kids and start seeing them as someone to pity or feel sorry for. But our kids here are so much more than just where they come from. They are resilient and hard working and loving and caring and playful and that is how I try to always see them.

And now, a happier theme…VACATION! The last week in August my roommate, Christiane, and I took a week long vacation to El Salvador. It was a fantastic trip. We had some pretty crazy adventures, no one was injured (though, I did manage to get sunburned on the second to last day, who’s surprised?). The first day there I took a surf lesson (Christiane had already learned in Bali and Portugal) and I fell A LOT. I can’t even say that I surfed, I just fell over and drank a lot of salt water. The second day I gave surfing a try went much, much better. I only fell once but I still drank quite a bit of sea water. Another day we went on a beautiful hike to 3 waterfalls and were able to jump off some cliffs into the water! One of the highlights of the trip was hiking to the crater of one of the volcanoes in El Salvador. It was such a beautiful, amazing hike! Made even more worth it by the fact that we tried to do the hike on Thursday, mistimed everything, ended up staying the night, doing the hike Friday, and then returning on the back of a motorcycle. It was a crazy adventure!

Back in July I also had the privilege of attending the wedding of Dra. Martha (the doctor I work with in the External Clinic) and Elzer. Both of them grew up on the ranch together and are Hermanos Mayores (meaning big brothers/big sister - what we call ex-pequeños). It was such a fun night and it was really fun seeing everyone so dressed up! Steffi and I did our best to dress up but we definitely didn't have anything as fancy as everyone else.

Coming up soon…15 de Septiembre (Honduran Independence), Olimpiadas, my parents visiting and a family vacation (minus my brother, Brian :(  ) to Costa Rica!

Picture time!!


My little love, Mili, after a successful proyecto.

This is her "I love cupcakes" face!

Marija's first proyecto! She's excited, Mili, on the other hand, is not so sure...

Proyecto familiar with these cuties.
Before chocolate frosting...
...after chocolate frosting.


She's such a sweet big sister.
So much giggling.


I just love this little girl.




Stephen, Martha, and Ross
The newly weds with some of the most important men on the ranch. From left to right: Padre Reinaldo, Stephen (director of NPH Honduras), Dra. Martha, Ross (co-director of NPH Honduras), Reinhart Kohler (director of NPH International), Elzer.

Steffi, Dra. Martha and Me - I love this woman, she is so great to work with every day.

Representing Maple Valley Day Camp with some of my chicas!

Learning about how the heart sounds in the clinic.

Playing with bubbles in the clinic!

Cena Amistosa!

El Salvador!!

Beautiful sunset.

Drinking and eating coconuts.

So bizarre using $1 coins in El Salvador

The Mr. Miagi of surfing. Such a sweet man.


Waterfalls and rock climbing.

Lago de Coatepeque before the storm rolled in...

...and after...

Sunset on the stormy lake.

Volcano Izaco

Gorgeous green lake in the crater of the volcano.

On top of the world.

So happy on top of a mountain!

The coast of El Salvador.

Christiane on the beach.

Gorgeous El Salvador.

My girls were happy when I got back though.